Hi everyone,
Maureen and Tony here. We are writing to say that we have had a change of plans in regards to this trip.
Let’s back up first and say this. We dreamed up this project many months ago. We’ve dedicated ourselves to it, building a network of friends and followers (you guys), designing a website, getting sponsorship and much more. In many ways, we think the biggest part was taking place before we even stepped out the door. This project is something we’ve loved to work on. Six months ago, we were not yet engaged, both doing jobs that didn’t excite us, and really ready to change up our lives. And so we dreamed this up. And it was a great escape for us. In those six months, we can say definitively, without a sliver of doubt, that we are in a different place than we ever thought we would be.
For a variety of reasons, we are not going to go through with the trip at this time.
We know that we don’t owe anyone an explanation, and we’re certainly entitled to changing our minds. But the hardest part of backing out of all of this was, quite honestly, having to address it to the people who have cared about us and wanted to watch us succeed. Even as I’m typing this message, a person we’ve never met just pledged us on our trip. The support we’ve received from so many of you will certainly be a highlight of this experience. So while we don’t owe you any explanations, you may be wishing for one. And to that, we’ll just have to say, it didn’t work out.
We are really okay with this decision. In the last six months, like we said, we’re in a different place. We always feared that if we didn’t go through with this, we’d live our whole lives in regret. Now we see what the best course of action is for us. Understanding that was difficult, but in the end we think that it takes a strong spirit to set out and do the sort of project we planned; it takes an even stronger will see the signs and walk away. We believe God has a plan for us. We don’t know what it is quite yet, but we’re walking confidently into our future.
In life there are successes and failures. We all go through them. We’ve all had our fair share. And while this didn’t work out like we had planned, we also don’t see it as a failure. We have come so far in our relationship. We’re more sure than we’ve ever been that we should be together. If that is the best thing that ever came from this, then we have nothing to regret.
Life is good, friends.
We are excited for the adventures that lie ahead. While we’re not quite ready to conquer America, we’ll be making our little adventures through life in ways that we can’t even imagine yet. And that is so exciting to us.
If we have anything final to say, it is this. Never be afraid to try something. Put yourself out there. While it is hard to write this and tell you all that we’re not finishing the project, what came from it is so much greater. And we are better off for having tried.
So thank you, everyone. Your support has meant the world to us. We can’t wait to see where life takes us next.
Much love,
Tony and Maureen